So the current "it" word for someone who puts their boyfriend or girlfriend before their friends is - dog.

this may be coupled with the suffixes kunt/kient/shit
or
prefixed with bloody/f*cking/stupid
to exaggerate the stringency of the act as well as how let down you feel.

I'd like to think that none of my friends would ever dog me for their current love interest

but it's not true.

they will.

and at some point,
i realise, im probably going to do the same

because at some point in life we'll fall in "love" and immerse ourselves in that one person who seems to bring us a certain happiness that noone else is capable of.

fair enough.

i just want to know why it has to start now whilst we're still young

we've got a good 20 or so years left in us to dog the world for our love
but it seems to hit us hardest as teenagers,

maybe because its something new in our lives
maybe friends just get old
or maybe its all part of growing up
actually i think its all of the above


i can see and fully understand the appeal of having someone who likes/loves you differently to your friends
ive had many that felt that way about me

what can i say *pops collar*

but in all seriousness, im pretty sure most of us have been there and dogged our friends for them,
and i think im safe in saying,
that at one point in that relationship,
you question
or regret
doing that to people who were there for you from the beginning.

but thats not going to stop you from doing it again



thats the trouble with love or "love".


all in all,
it cuts to know your girl friends or boy friends are going to prefer someone else over you
its the most inferior feeling knowing theres something you cant actually give them

its okay to have those feelings,

just dont turn around if the relationship breaks up and expect your friends to still be there


but if when you do,

they ARE still there -

count your blessings